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    When Sensory Integration Plateaus: Tips To Get Back On Track

    The craziness has returned. Meltdowns are back. Sensory seeking is at all time high. Declan’s sensory integration has plateaued. We still do all the same things; we do our very best to use the skills and techniques we learned in occupational therapy and he has stopped responding. We have plateaued. The sensory integration strategies we have been using while AMAZING have lost their bang. The sensory plateau is super common and happens all the time.

    A little background. When Declan was diagnosed with SPD, read the post here, we started occupational therapy. We did weekly therapy sessions for just over six months. Towards the end of this time we came to a joint decision that occupational therapy had done wonders and it appeared Declan was ready to come to therapy less often. That happened at the end of December.

    Here we are in February and we have plateaued. Essentially that means the techniques and strategies we have been using have run their course. His sensory system as “caught on” to what we are doing and has stopped responding in the way we hope. Swinging doesn’t meet his needs anymore, heavy work seems less effective and his eating troubles have returned.

    So what do you do when your sensory integration strategies seem to stop working and your kiddo encounters a sensory plateau?

    This was, yet another. first for us but over the last couple weeks we have had to spend a lot of time navigating this question. What happens now? So I wanted to share four things we have done to help re-spark the sensory integration and better meet his needs.

    Call the Therapist

    This may seem like an obvious one but it actually took me a while to do this. Not sure what I waiting for. She was able to offer some advice on additional integration ideas. She reminded me of the things we were already working on and she essentially calmed me down. If she did nothing else it was to ease my mind that this is totally normal.

    Our therapist has always maintained an open line of communication so she was happy to chat with me. We also scheduled a few “maintenance” sessions to get him back on track and tackle a few new symptoms we are seeing. Over the phone she offered me a couple ideas for new ways to meet his proprioceptive needs in order to hold us over until our appointment.

    Get To The Root Of The Plateau

    This one seems simple but in reality this was the hardest piece for us to really figure out. As we started to look at why we were seeing a plateau we really struggled to figure out which of our strategies may not be working anymore… it seemed like everything we tried was failing. And then, one day, Declan walked upstairs and his pants were like 3 inches too short. He had hit a growth spurt. BAM! It hit me that the likely root of the plateau was due to his growth spurt.

    When kids hit growth spurts- both physically and mentally- it is really hard for their bodies to manage all of the changing elements. They have sensory needs that fall all out of whack despite great integration techniques. Declan’s body just couldn’t handle it all. Growing takes all his energy and he very little left to respond to sensory input… hence the meltdowns, sensory seeking and general craziness.

    Be Patient and Predictable

    Maintain structure and a schedule. This is one of the best ways to deal with and ease the struggles of a plateau. Be consistent in both your schedule and your sensory integration. If there are underlying root causes of the plateau a consistent and predictable schedule will be one of the best ways to combat this issue. Many times kid with SPD crave a predictable schedule, in general, and especially when they seem to be struggling to regulate and processing sensory input. If their bodies can start to anticipate what is coming it can help alleviate any unknowns in the bodies. Providing you kiddo with anticipated activities could help to get them over the sensory plateau as they begin to expect and crave that in turn helping to meet their sensory needs.

    Try Some New Resources

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    The internet is filled with so many resources. But like you I can be skeptical about what I am reading if I am not sure of the validity of it. But I have done some work for you and found some great online resources that really helped us work through the sensory plateau. I have found a few podcasts and websites that gave us some new ideas and strategies to help meet Declan’s needs.

    Podcasts

    1. The Sensory Project Show Podcast Episode 31
    2. Naturally Recovering Autism Podcast: Interview With Lindsey Biel
    3. Tilt Parenting Podcast Episode 76

    Websites

    1. Star Institute For Sensory Processing

    Books

    1. The Out Of Sync Child Has Fun
    2. The Everything Parents Guide To Sensory Processing Disorder
    3. Ignore It! How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavior Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction
    4. The Explosive Child: A New Approach For Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated Chronically Inflexible Children

    There are so many great ideas out there from other mothers and occupational therapist on Pinterest as well. Make sure to check that out.

    The fact is that each resources may not be 100% applicable to your child and your situation but there will be a tip or two in each resources that can help with the sensory plateau.

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    Secrets for Successful Santa Visits

    The Big Man.  Santa Claus.  St. Nick. Father Christmas

    The thing is this: as a parent you either loath the visit to Santa or you wait all year for this amazing day.  Despite what side you fall on the visit is going to happen.  And hopefully after reading this the visit will be a huge success.

    We all know the picture of the fat man in a red suit holding the screaming baby… yah we have that photo! And in fact we have like 3 of them.  It is only in the past year that Declan has come around to Santa.  But each year we have gotten closer and closer to a successful Santa visit and so I am determined that this year will be the best one yet! And because we have been through this and now we have the lens of sensory processing I wanted to share my secrets to successful Santa visits.

    For kids with SPD a visit to Santa can either be a great way to meet sensory needs or it can be a nightmare. If you kiddo is a seeker than all the lights, crowds, sounds and Santa himself can meet a lot of their needs.  But if you child is an avoider, especially a severe avoider, a visit to Santa class could just be the worst day every- despite your best intentions.  My hope is that no matter your child’s needs these secrets will help ease any anxiety and tension.

    The whole idea of Santa is to create memories and share the magic of the Holidays with out littles.  Santa is the last step of magic… before they become non-believers.  So let’s make those visits a happy, joyful, stress free outing.

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    5 SECRETS FOR SUCCESSFUL SANTA VISITS

    Plan Ahead

    This may seem like a silly one to even mention.  BUT when you are dealing with kids with SPD (or any child in general) having a plan can make or break your trip.  While some parents and children are able to fly by the seat of their pants I highly suggest making a PLAN before you venture off to see Santa.  Consider timing; not only how long it takes to see Santa but the potential line, the amount of travel time and any additional time spent getting to Santa.  Don’t take kids around lunch time when they may be hungry and consider first thing in the morning before your kids start to get tired.  Make sure to check when Santa is available before you head out! Santa is waiting!

    Divide and Conquer

    Make it a group outing!  Invite grandparents and/or close friends.  Have a one adult wait in line (if there is one) and one or two adults walk around the kiddos.  This can be especially helpful for kids with SPD.  Seekers may need to run, jump and wiggle.  So having someone to hangout with them and support them while they do that can be really helpful.  If you have an avoider having an extra person there to wait further away from the crowds, or help distract or even wait in the car can make the whole experience manageable.  It takes a village!

    santaBe Flexible

    Parents want perfect Hallmark photos and memories.  And sometimes we have such grandiose expectations of what the visit and moment should look like that we forget to let our kids experience.  Keep in mind they are still children and be flexible on your expectations of the moment.  The photo may not be perfect but your child’s eyes light up and the magic is alive in them then that is a successful Santa visit.  Remember, whose memory is this… theirs or yours??

    Keep It Simple

    For the most part kids are simple humans.  They like it simple and easy.  Adults are the ones that make it complicated and muddy up the waters.  And believe me I am guilty of this!  Let them be kids.  Do not stress about what they may say to Santa- let them be spontaneous.  Try not to over think their behavior in the moment; as a parent of SPD that is hard to do. But them experience and live it.  They are simple creatures who simply want to laugh, smile and be happy.  And if Santa doesn’t meet those need I am not sure who can!

    Expect The Unexpected

    You made a plan a head of time, you were flexible and you kept it simple… and then you got up to Santa and your kiddo freaked out.  Expect that.  In the moment things can always change and while being flexible is great it is also making sure we understand that we will likely be surprised by something.  For the kids with SPD this last secret is one of the most important.  We can plan and do as much preparing as possible but we all know that we should walk into any situation expecting the unexpected.  And that is okay!  And that does not mean failure!

    Santa truly embodies the best that the Holidays has to offer and I want more than anything for you and your kiddos to enjoy getting to see him and sending off your Christmas wishes.  But Mamas, remember at the end of the day it is about the memories and the magic of the season.  Santa is a great dude!  But do not make a visit to see him the end all be all of the Holiday season.  With these five easy secrets your visits will hopefully be a little more successful, be a little less anxious and a little more merrier.

    With Love,

  • Family Life, Sensory Processing

    Holiday Gift Guide For Kids With Sensory Processing

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    Tis the Season… For Gift Giving! This year I want to share the top gifts and each gift is sensory inspired. All of these gifts meet and/or address at least one and actually multiple sensory needs.  Whether it be a swing for vestibular and self regulation.  Or a shopping cart that meets proprioceptive and tactile. And every gift on the list is under $100 while most are actually under $50.

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    Sensory Processing Disorder: The Impact of Seeking vs. Avoiding

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    So, you are curious what the impact of your child’s sensory struggles may be.  After reading about the SEVEN sense involved in SPD it’s time to chat more about the impact this has on your kiddo.  As you have noticed sometimes you child me shy away from sensory experiences while others may seek them out.  And it is perfectly normal that sometimes your child may seek out certain senses and then avoid others.

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    Sensory Processing Disorder: The Seven Senses

    I am simply a mother who has a son with SPD.  A mother who has done a lot of reading and research to help better understand my son.  Yes, I am also a former special education teacher so I have additional knowledge on how differently wired children learn and function. Sensory Processing involves the process of receiving and using information from your sense to make decision to act/think/feel a certain way.  So, when one of your senses is wired differently, needs additional input (stimuli) or receives too much input we are challenged to take all the information and organize it correctly. 

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